Janet Groth’s The Receptionist: A Reflection

The receptionist receives. Receives what? An education, a memoir. One purpose of a memoir, a narrative of memory, might be to raise eyebrows, for it’s a tool to talk back, to reflect not only on what was taken in but to evaluate and tell on the givers, the repellers, those who dismiss, to give back some sass. One may also be received, received into, into the club; but not in Janet Groth’s case. Miss Groth, to use the New Yorker office convention of the time, was the receptionist on the writer’s floor for a little over two decades, and, never having been promoted or published or even encouraged, finally left, graduating on her own terms, storing the education for a later memoir, much later – 30 years later. Groth’s memoir has already been discussed by those in the know, but here’s a view from a different coast.

Why was Miss Groth never given “a better job” (224) at the magazine? She offers four possibilities: 1, nepotism; 2, lack of Ivy League connections; 3, lack of submissions (only three in twenty-one years, an output Joe Mitchell would however have understood); and 4, she was kept a receptionist because she was a kept receptionist – she was good and that’s where they wanted her. None of these explanations by themselves sound all that convincing, but maybe all taken together they amount to a decision deferred that becomes the dream deferred. And receptionist, in the world of business, is a feminine noun, while what’s needed to push the business forward is a masculine verb.

For a memoir to be successful, the main character must be a dynamic character; she must change from the beginning to the end. Throwing her change into relief are all the static characters she receives over time, characters that don’t change, but that remain their dismissive selves throughout, and the photos of static characters are rarely charming or lovely, and may even offer unflattering profiles.

When I think of memoir, of the self-important profile it proclaims, I also think of P. G. Wodehouse’s “Heavy Weather,” wherein “…the Hon. Galahad Threepwood, brother of the Earl of Emsworth and as sprightly an old gentleman as was ever thrown out of a Victorian music-hall, was engaged in writing the recollections of his colourful career as a man about town in the nineties, the shock to the many now highly respectable members of the governing classes who in their hot youth had shared it was severe. All over the country decorous Dukes and steady Viscounts, who had once sown wild oats in the society of the young Galahad, sat quivering in their slippers at the thought of what long-cuboarded skeletons those Reminiscences might disclose.”

Not to worry in the Wodehouse world, for Galahad has already sent a note to his publisher:  “Dear Sir, Enclosed find cheque for the advance you paid me on those Reminiscences of mine. I have been thinking it over, and have decided not to publish them after all.” But what then develops is indeed a bit of nepotism in the publishing world as the memoir in question becomes a pig to nobble, even as there are real pigs to nobble as the plot unfolds.

We don’t know what Groth has held back, of course, but she wants to persuade us she’s told most of the story. That story is not only about a receptionist, but about an existential (she confides she once wanted to be a female Camus) question: shall we be defined by the roles received from our parents, where we come from, or from our employers, our tribe or our set, or will we, like Huckleberry Finn, “light out for the territory” and define for ourself what it means to be ourself, refusing to receive any other’s limiting or corralled view of us? Yet what of the receptionist who can’t stop receiving? Who will tell her memoir?

The Receptionist: An Education at The New Yorker,” by Janet Groth. Algonquin Books of Chapel Hill, 2012. 229 pages.

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  1. Yet what of the receptionist who can’t stop receiving? Who will tell her memoir? … The press?
    Your line is a book title in itself.
    There are men in that position too. The switching points of protagonists always intrigue us, where a saint starts fighting, or the warrior puts down the weapon.


    1. Dan Hennessy says:

      …Or a receptionist , 30 years later , publishes a memoir . (?) And she becomes the sender , no longer receiver . (?)


  2. Dan Hennessy says:

    Sounds interesting . Also , I like the phrase ” pig to nobble ” —- no idea what it means .


    1. Joe Linker says:

      In Wodehouse’s Heavy Weather, there is a doubly devious plot afoot at Blandings Castle and environs to prohibit publication of Galahad’s ribald Reminiscences while bringing harm to Empress, Lord Emsworth’s prize pig. Whosoever would bring harm to the pig is a nobbler, bent on nobbling the animal to bring advantage to another, as in hobbling a prize horse, disabling its chances to win a race. I am reminded too of the hobbled ass case, famous among CPCU scholars, which set a precedent in common law having to do with last clear chance. Just because someone’s ass is illegally parked in the middle of the road gives another no right to run said ass over. This is particularly clear if the ass happens to be illegally parked due to its being hobbled, though that clear has nothing to do with last clear chance. Last clear chance has to do with one’s ability to avoid accident usually when not at fault. This is what “excuse me” is all about, where common law becomes common courtesy, and the treatment of pigs a matter of politeness. The word nobble, or some form of it, appears several times in Heavy Weather, and in context is understood by the reader to include the potential stealing of the pig. There’s a detective too in the novel. You might like it. Eh?


      1. Dan Hennessy says:

        I stand readerly hobbled . Did anybody try to nobble the ass ? I should do a little reading . I wrote a timelessly meaningless poem entitled Nobble in the pig’s honor .


        1. Joe Linker says:

          I saw the Nobble poem. I liked it. Nobble the pig, nobble the poem, noble the hobbled ass.


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